PakDestiny News Desk – Forget tight abs and fast cars. It’s the subtle things that are the most entrancing
Guys, forget every thing you’ve been told about what women like. Yes, even if it came from a high-shine glossy magazine. It’s not about the fast car or where you party, it’s about the subtle things. Sit up and read carefully. And then get ready for the fawning that will ensue.
Nicely fitted clothes
A man who dresses right is appreciable, but one who wears clothes that are fitted just so says he pays attention to details. That doesn’t mean muscle tees that can barely hold in your biceps, or your father’s trousers. It means clothes that are tailored nicely, fit just right on your shoulder and enhance your frame. For an extra touch, iron the trousers well and make sure they break at the right length above your shoes. It’s between the ankle and heel, if you are wondering.
Women love it when you choose them over their friends in the first blush of the relationship, but completely losing touch with your gang is a little suspicious. Emphasizing your image as a man’s man by playing sports (or computer games), drinking scotch and working out makes them feel safe around you and respect you. You don’t get there if you are always on call to play driver or help move things. And a little distance away adds to the mystique. Also, knowing that you have friends from school, or even nursery shows that you are loyal. That’s a big score.
Enjoying her moves
It’s creepy if you suggest watching DDLJ, but watching it when she wants to, and gallantly offering a kerchief when she cries is sweet and sensitive. It shows that you don’t mind doing an activity you don’t enjoy that much, as long as you get to do it with her. A perfect balance of your protective and soft sides.
Knowing which wine to order in a restaurant hints at sophistication and travel to exotic locations. It’s far more adult than beer. If you don’t know about vintages, just order a red or white (after reading up on what goes with what). Just don’t step over the line and order a Cosmo.
Women secretly like it when you take a shot at them lightly, even if they giggle and pout for a while. They are thrilled inside. Key is knowing what you can make fun of and what’s out of bounds. Replaying an exaggerated movement of her silly dance is cute; re-enacting how she fell on her face while wearing sky-high heels is not. The former shows that you watch her closely, are enamored and even think that her graceless movements on the dance floor are cute. The latter shows you are not averse to turning her humiliation into dinner table fodder.
This one has a catch. V-necks are a no-no if you have a chest wig in between your man-boobs. if you are toned, wear it under a blazer. A V-neck over a small patterned shirt is cute and stylish, and reminds her of that literature professor she had a crush on. Do you have spectacles to go with it? 7
You’re an evolving caveman. You’re expected to be able to eat more than her, and perhaps like your meat a little bloody. But drinking a fizzy drink for breakfast and fries for a snack shows you don’t care about your body, or worse still, are unaware of health hazards. Or you’re just plain immature.
This is not a license to tell her what to do. This means take control when she’s feeling indecisive. She doesn’t want to be the one planning vacations, or deciding where to go for dinner. Decide, taking into consideration what she wants, of course; and stare back at that creepy guy who is trying to look down her blouse. It shows that you can be depended upon to take charge when a situation gets out of hand. Or when she wants you to.
Don’t need to spell this one out. If you are not jealous, you don’t care. Or are too cocky and arrogant. If you are jealous of anything male, you are a potential stalker. A little jealousy validates that you have designs on her time and affection and aren’t willing to let her go.
Hanging out with folks
Well, not all the time of course. Enjoying your mom’s company shows that you genuinely like her, and chances are you are a well adjusted boy. If you tend to drop your sister off or call her to see when she’s coming home, it’s a sign that you’ll extend the same protection to the woman in your life. And that’s a special kind of sexy.