By Kiran Bokhari
(Pak Destiny) Boxer Amir Khan’s wife revelations that she was ‘bullied’ by her in-laws has created a stir in Pakistani media which madly expressing its shock as how come this happened in London.
Faryal Makhdoom, wife of Pakistani origin British national boxer Amir Khan, reveals what many choose to hide.
She said: “My in-laws attempted to hit me and also tried to force Amir to divorce me when she was nine months pregnant. In fact my husband was also a victim of his parents’ bullying tactics but they failed to get result from their nefarious designs,” Faryal opened up.
Faryal’s Snapchat story began circulating on social media today as many appreciated her for speaking out against domestic violence. Faryal claims Amir is with her but would not say anything against his parents out of respect.
“I did it [spoke out on Snapchat] because there are so many Pakistani daughters-in-law who go through this and never speak up. I was one of them, who stayed quiet for my husband’s respect, for my family’s sake. I spoke up to make these women strong… I spoke up to defend my husband who has done so much for his family but still gets grief, why? I wanted people to see this is unacceptable,” Faryal said.”
“At first it was the cultural thing of mom, dad, listen to everything they say. But in time Amir saw I was getting mistreated and it wasn’t fair to see your wife and child be put through this. Amir supports me in everything I do, we are one,” she said, adding her domestic situation was unbearable for the three years she’s been with Amir.
“I was bullied by my in-laws but now that I have spoken out I feel a sense of relief,” she said.
Faryal also said the parents and other relatives of Amir were jeolous of his fame and wealth. “I want Amir to stay in touch with his mom and dad forever but they should not be given any right to abuse me any more,” Faryal said.
Faryal has set an example for other victims of domestic violence to raise their voice against this injustice. — Pak Destiny
Il be the first to condemn the ill treatment of daughter in laws but..
How is her airing her dirty laundry on snapchat to thousands of people going to benefit the situation at all??
Shes no longer sitting in silence, what, are all her followers gonna swoop in and save her? No.
If she wanted to break her silence and “stand up.to bullies” it should be dealt with within the family.
Fino I doubt she rushed to social media in the first instance it’s obv been going on for so long and I bet she tried to sort it out and now is at breaking point 🌚 it takes guts to spill she obv hasn’t lightly. plus it’s good someone in the public eye like faryal is speaking up for all the girls feeling the same
She don’t look the type to keep quiet
You can take the whore out the brothel
But you can’t take the brothel out the whore.
Comes to mind.
Cracks starting to show !!!
It’s only a matter of time this * sucker takes Amir Khan to the cleaner’s.
Faryal is not a single woman answering to her parents no more on what she wears or doesn’t wear. She’s a wife and a mother now, and has to respect her husband and his family. Your 26 and a mother, where are you gonna go. I hope you get over this stage. If they wanted to hit her they would have hit her. Attempted to hit her? Bullying dress like a ho, dress like a hooker and no one can tell you shit? He never should have married you. But Faryal knows that her options are limited if you get divorced, never in your life would you get a chance like this. There was no bullying, just a disrespectful, improper, unrealistic woman who they were trying to turn into a wife and she wanted to behave like a single woman who does whatever. It looks like her parents failed in disciplining her, and she’s a fail. She really doesn’t look like a wife, or wife material. He never should have married her. From what I’m speculating, I’m not muslim, and the way she dresses is not acceptable in the muslim religion. I don’t know much about the muslim religion, but from speculation: loose fitting pants, not tight to body are permissable. No big amount of chest area showing. I don’t think the clinging to the skin is good in islam, or sea through. I don’t think she’s even allowed to wear makeup in public. If he tells her to wear a head scarfe she has to, and once she’s hit puberty and got her first period, she has to wear a headscarfe. I don’t think they’re allowed to wear high heels either, I’m not sure. He’s muslim, he’s family is muslim. Even if he’s wife wasn’t muslim, she has to respect custom and she shouldn’t have to be asked twice or told twice what to wear. She should listen. Amir Khan’s parents are right, immodest clothing is not good for a woman. A woman’s kids could get sick if she dresses immodestly, nail polish, and all the other caboom. It’s not in the Christian religion either for the woman to dress immodestly, I’m Eastern Orthodox Christian. (we’re not allowed to wear tight pants (put a skirt over your knees on top i would do), make-up, see through revealing our body more then we should (uncovered shoulders, and we’re only allowed to cover underneath the knee)) There’s freedom of choice when your not married, otherways u have to respect, but if ur not afraid of having sick kids go for it. Neither is it appropriate in the whole india to dress inappropriately which has many religions, and many other countries. She seems venomous, and whether with him or without him she will raise the kids to be just like her (whatever that may be). Trust me, my cousin married a muslim. She was wearing anything they told her to wear, she didn’t care. Amir Khan: very bad choice, you shouldn’t have married her. She’s not playing that bully victim card on me. So she’s never been hit by inlaws. And all the bullying that’s been stated is that they didn’t like the way she dressed, this was a problem for her. Your a wife, and a mother. They are right that a woman has to dress modestly, who are you trying to impress? You know horror stories I’ve heard, inlaws beating up their daughter inlaws daily, or often. I know someone that went mentally ill. Her father inlaw was walking the shower to turn off the water while she was naked and showering regularly, with his eyes closed. There was much bullshit happening to her. Who’s gonna pay the water bill. She’s cool with her inlaws, they have a good relationship. The ones beat up, they have a good relationship too. If she wants to say bullying, what bullying: clothing choice is all i c, and they’re probably right. faryal isn’t a hooker, or a randomn girl he’s just fucking and she can’t wear just whatever she picks. Even the hooker and the randomn sexing girl would have to dress to what tickles his fancy. I would like to send this one back to her parents if i had to get a daughter inlaw like this, and no one deserves a wife or daughter inlaw like this. I bet you her parents aren’t condoning her actions and telling her to straighten her out either. She’s a reflection on her parents. It looks disgusting to me. if she was single not married, i wouldn’t say nothing about what she wears. married, and she’s been asked to dress more appropriately and she refuses, it doesn’t look good. u horrible woman, i’m not stupid and ur not playing tricks with me… ur not been bullied. ur a shit daughter inlaw and wife. don’t ruin ur children like ur parents ruin u. i bet u u haven’t been straightened out by ur parents who don’t care how u behave. amir khan’s parents shoulnd’t worry, we can all see she’s an undisciplined degenerate…. a message to families, don’t let ur kids marry people who they disapprove of. don’t let em go through with it, they’ll suffer badly forever or get divorced.